SUBTLE THINGS THAT MEN FIND SEXY

When trying to get a man’s attention, the obviously sexy things like flashing your boobs and touching him flirtatiously are no longer in style. Not that they don’t work, they are effective but…dare I say, trite? Let’s talk about the subtle things that men find sexy, the unconscious things can make him go crazy.

SMELL GOOD

This does not necessarily translate into pouring oodles of perfume on yourself. that is tacky and off-putting. Women who consistently smell wholesomely clean, with a hint of scent (not sweat) are hella attractive to men. When he associates a particular attractive scent to you, it turns him on.

SMILE

Okay, this is a bit too obvious, but it works. Whether you are smiling at him or at someone else, the joy and openness a smile brings to your face is attractive. It instantly makes you more sexy, more accessible, and more intriguing. Your smile will draw him in and encourage him to make his move.

SMARTS

Smart women are sexy women. He wants to match you in wit and sarcasm, he wants to have intelligent, stimulating conversations with you. If you have to dumb yourself down to seem accessible to a man, he is the wrong kind of man. Be with someone who will make love to your brain, and be comfortable with your wit.

BEING COMFORTABLE IN YOUR OWN SKIN

Just watching you do your own thing unconscious of how you look is hot! When you are comfortable in your own skin, you are beautiful to him no matter what you wear. This translates to your confidence in yourself and your abilities, the way you take charge of your own affairs, and that confidence is sexy.

CHOKERS

A choker brings a certain zing to a woman’s look, and the men dig it. They dig it so much that having a choker on is enough to turn him on.

WEARING GLASSES

This might sound weird, but there is a thing that women in glasses have that draws men. Maybe it’s an offshoot of the librarian/schoolgirl trope in porn? We can’t say, but we do know it is sexy.

MAKE EYE CONTACT

This doesn’t just tell him that you are interested in what he has to say (and we all know how men like to be heard), it projects a confidence that being coy cannot beat. A man will always be drawn to that woman who looks him in the eye, and it is sexy as hell.

PASSION FOR LIFE

Have you ever just being talking about a cause or subject you are really passionate about and you look at your man and see a glint in his eye? Just watching and hearing you be so animated and filled with life is a huge turn on.

The crux of all this is that just being yourself is sexy ladies!